You are both lovers of peace and harmony, and avoid conflict and tension as much as possible. There is a cordial, soft quality to your relationship that makes it very pleasant, and these qualities draw many friends and acquaintances to you as well. Beneath the smooth facade, however, you do have your differences! Very often Libra is more socially oriented and communicative, while Taurus is too busy with interests, hobbies, or work and is not willing to join Libra in conversation, social activity, or entertainment. Taurus needs to be less inflexible at times.
Also, aesthetics are very important to both of you, and you probably disagree on matters of style from time to time.
Harmony, pleasantness, and peace in your home life and personal relationships is so important to both of you that you'll ignore or cover up the conflicts and differences that exist between you. Both of you are very uncomfortable expressing anger and afraid of creating upheaval. As the song goes, "you'd do anything to avoid a fight"! Of course, Libra's innate diplomacy and courtesy, and Taurus' slowness to take offence go a long way toward keeping your relationship smooth, but there are times when you need to look plainly at the problems, or you are bound to experience dissatisfactions at times. For instance, one area that might be a problem is that Libra enjoys and needs a lot more verbal communication than Taurus is inclined to, and Libra may feel unhappy or neglected unless there is a running conversation going on. Also, Taurus is more prosaic and once a relationship is comfortably established, may take it for granted, whereas Libra wants romantic gestures and a certain style or elegance in order to stay interested in the relationship.
Taurus tastes are simpler, and Libra has more of an interest in art, literature, theatre, culture, etc, than Taurus does.
These problems certainly do not need to become major ones, but you should acknowledge your differences and confront your problems when they arise.
Although there is a great deal of fascination, curiosity, and attraction between you, there is also a lack of stability and peace. You react to each other very impulsively. Your feelings for each other blow hot and cold. It may seem like you are either making love or arguing with each other, going from one extreme to another. This relationship could easily turn into a love/hate relationship, where you simultaneously feel irresistibly drawn to each other, but you also irritate each other and make each other feel very uncomfortable. To make this relationship work, you both must be very flexible, tolerant of shortcomings in each other, adaptable to the constant changes and upsets, and enjoy excitement, novelty, and surprises. In this relationship there is never a dull moment!
The physical and sexual attraction between you is strong, but the tendency to frustrate each other and rouse each other's wrath is equally strong. Although the attraction between you is powerful, you should think carefully before making a long-term commitment, because the tendency to argue and nag each other is an undesirable side to this relationship that both of you will need to content with. The sexual aspect of your relationship has an almost aggressive quality to it. Try not to be too pushy or demanding with each other, as this quickly precipitates arguments and hostile feelings.
At times, sex may be an off and on phenomenon. Intense one minute, boring the next. Libra loves new excitement and change. Taurus prefers stamina and stability, the old routine. Libra hates possessiveness.
Romantic illusions and fantasies, erotic imagination and dreams of perfect Love all play a crucial role in your relationship. To avoid being severely disappointed and disillusioned, it would be good to recognize from the start that your partner is not a Goddess or God, is not meant to rescue or save you from your problems, and is, in fact, a lot less perfect than you believe! More likely possibilities, such as pretending to be something that you are not, or trying to rescue your partner from his or her own predicaments, can be equally trouble-producing. Either or both of you are apt to feel you were seduced or lured into the relationship under false pretences, but probably you simply fooled yourselves!
If you are willing to accept the less than beautiful and ideal aspect of one another, an authentic relationship based on compassion as well as eroticism can evolve. If you can't do this, the more tragic implications of the phrase "love is blind" will certainly become clear to you both in time.
