Both of you are good listeners and you are receptive to others' points of view, and you dislike having to engage in competitive behaviour or aggressive tactics in order to get your point across or receive fair treatment. You appreciate that your partner shares your gentle attitude. Libra, however, may sometimes feel that Pisces is too gentle and receptive, being evasive or vague when asked questions or unable to be definite and articulate. Libra thrives on dialogue while Pisces often prefers to simply take in lots of ideas and ponder them for a long time before offering a point of view. Libra also has a strong sense of justice and quality and can be vengeful towards those who are seen as unjust, while Pisces is more likely to feel compassion and sympathy even for those who are guilty.
Both of you are peace-loving and need a harmonious, non-competitive atmosphere in your home. Both of you avoid conflict as much as possible and Pisces in particular is something of a pacifist, at least in personal relationships.
There are differences between you, though. Pisces has little sense of limits or boundaries, and may be very comfortable in a rather fluid, disorderly, even chaotic, sort of atmosphere. Libra has a highly developed sense of balance, proportion, and symmetry, and naturally seeks order.
Moderation, appropriateness, and a happy medium are important to Libra, while Pisces tends to go to excess in everything. For instance, Pisces is essentially very generous and compassionate and will give endlessly and indiscriminately to someone with a sad story. Pisces often becomes involved in relationships where one person is primarily the giver or helper and the other is dependent and needy, the receiver in the relationship. Libra, on the other hand, seeks a reciprocal relationship between equals and is very much aware of how much each person has given and taken. Libra wants the scales to be balanced.
Also, Pisces is very emotional, physically receptive and intuitive, while Libra is more unemotional and rational in comparison.
Both of you can be very passionate and driven, and work or achievement can become an obsession for you. Whenever a desire makes itself felt in either of you, tremendous energy is released and you will pour yourself wholeheartedly, even compulsively, into fulfilling it - sometimes to the detriment of your health, relationships, or other areas of your lives. Using force and will appropriately, is easier for Pisces than for Libra. When Libra's will or desires are blocked, Libra is prone to become intensely angry, and possibly destructive. Libra wrestles with the destructive side of anger, and may fear anger and/or claiming personal power. The tendency to block rage and the necessity of learning to release it in constructive ways is one of Libra's lessons - something Pisces may well be able to help with.
This is likely to be a stormy, fiery, and emotional relationship. The romantic attraction between you is very strong, but your feelings are often not in tune with each other. One of you (typically Pisces but sometimes Libra) may feel sexually aroused by the other and consequently be too aggressive in approach, while the other person feels great love and affection, but is not feeling as sexually attracted. Jealousy and possessiveness are also likely. Feelings can swing back and forth and you may not realise how much you love each other until you are away from each other.
You may
have a needless fear of the unknown in matters of sexual
exploration. Some hesitation may be indicated by one
partner. Insecurity and anxiety may cause the odd
frustration in enjoying a powerful sexual liaison.
Mishandling your shared assets, spending too freely or on the wrong things, wanting more than you can really afford, excessiveness, waste, overindulgence - these will become issues in your relationship. As a duo, you may be drawn into get-rich-quick schemes or into a pattern of buy-now-pay-later, which will haunt you later. In some ways, a laxness and desire for ease will become trouble for you. Part of the purpose of your coming together is to learn to discern and discriminate between what you truly need to be greatly happy, and what are simply trappings.
A redefinition of what constitutes "the good life" will emerge.
Handling of daily chores and tasks can get very disorganised in your relationship, particularly if you live together or are married. Pisces, in particular, may feel that it is an endless battle trying to maintain an orderly life. Your daily routines change frequently and you often switch roles. For example, it is likely that sometimes Libra may take care of cooking and cleaning, and then Pisces assumes the responsibility, rather than one person always handling the same responsibilities. If you try to force a rigid system, you will find that it is not comfortable for either of you.
