Honesty and a desire for the unadorned truth are virtues you both
posses and value, though Virgo takes Aries' honest criticism better than Aries takes Virgo's.
Some very basic differences in your makeup can make you uncomfortable with each other at times: Aries tends to throw caution to the wind, while Virgo worries a great deal if all details are not taken care of first. Aries acts NOW, on impulse and intuition, while Virgo wants to think carefully and study the fine print first.
Virgo is the more self-analytical of the two of you and Aries is likely to be impatient with this at times. Virgo also tends to be more giving, and may get into the role of assistant or "servant" to Aries. Both of you need to make a lot of adjustments in order to accommodate the differences between you.
You will need to do quite a bit of adjusting in order to harmonize with one another on a daily basis, as your personal habits and instinctive emotional responses to situations are very different, and may become a source of considerable irrigation over time.
Virgo is careful and needs to thoroughly analyze a situation before proceeding. Aries on the other hand, is impulsive and direct and often abrupt. Aries will act first, and think about the consequences later. Aries is prone to emotional outbursts and short-lived, but frequent flares of temper. Virgo is rather sensitive and becomes nervous, fretful, or anxious by Aries brashness.
Virgo is a bit of a worrier, and Aries, who hates to admit ever feeling frightened or insecure, may scoff at Virgo's concerns and worries.
Also Virgo is something of a perfectionist, dislikes making mistakes, and can be very critical of self and others. Aries has a strong need to take chances on new ventures, to be daring and original, and is bound to make numerous mistakes in the process. Virgo's criticisms can be very discouraging to the bold pioneer in Aries. One way you can support each other is for Virgo to help organize and practically implement some of Aries creative ideas.
The relationship is more than likely to have its fair share of frustrations and difficulties. There is a sense of responsibilities towards each other, but the union may not necessarily be long lasting.
At times you both feel emotionally constrained and inhibited by being together, and this relationship may feel like a form of imprisonment! Virgo, in particular, may feel disheartened by Aries criticisms, worries, fears, or need to dominate Virgo's life. Virgo's emotional needs and feelings are ignored and much emphasis on responsibilities and obligations and not enough attention given to the needs for acceptance and tenderness.
As a couple, you will have many unusual experiences, and a lot of friends whoa re unique, interesting, creative, and quite different from one another. You could gather a "family" around you that is quite unlike the traditional or "normal" family, including adopted relatives and close friends. A certain openness, acceptance of deviance from the norm, and willingness to learn from unexpected sources will be essential in this relationship. Being able to flow with change and live in the present moment will be necessary too, as there is a certain, ongoing movement in your relationship that precludes settling down into any established routine for very long.
Emotionally this relationship is unusual, there may be sexual competition or inhibitions. Virgo may hold back from a climax unnecessarily, due to Aries' selfish and quick action. Thus, full sexual enjoyment in love, may not be forthcoming at times.
As a couple the two of you will attract a lot of unusual friends, eccentric or creative people who will make life interesting and entertaining. Openness to experimentation, especially regarding expressing yourselves sexually or how you derive pleasure and enjoyment, will play an important role in your relationship too. You'll find that your interaction is always dynamic and changing, so that both of you are taken by surprise and cannot take anything for granted regarding each other. This keeps your connection fresh and stimulating, although you may wish for a little more peace and "sameness" at times.
If your relationship is a long-term one and you live together, you can expect that this relationship will bring both of you face to face with personal habits of your own that must be improved, or at least adapted to the tastes of your partner. Issues such as tidiness and neatness at home, use of abusive or foul language, choice of foods, tastes in music and decor, approaches towards raising children, etc. come to the fore. At times you will come to an impasse and feel that you cannot come to an agreement on these issues. Virgo, in particular, may become very frustrated by some of Aries' deeply ingrained, personal habits. If your ethnic backgrounds or upbringings are very different, this problem can be severe. If both of you can be tolerant, open-minded, accepting or shortcomings in your m ate, and willing to learn new attitudes, you can turn potentially frustrating situations into opportunities to mature and grow emotionally.
