Enthusiasm, a sense of adventure, and high spirited play
infuse
your relationship. You both feel you can be yourselves
fully
with one another: you don't have to tone down any of your
exuberance and energy, the way you might with someone else.
In fact, you inspire and vitalize one another's strength.
Aries sometimes clashes or competes with other strong
individuals, but Sagittarius is tolerant, not threatened,
and doesn't take the bait. Also, you both need personal
freedom and space, and even if you spend all of your time
together, you are unlikely to feel smothered in this
relationship. A happy twosome!
Both of
you are somewhat uncomfortable with emotional neediness,
dependency, and feelings in general. Sagittarius often
intellectualises feelings rather than experiencing them
fully and directly, and may filter personal experiences
through a philosophical system that regards certain feelings
to be "positive" and acceptable, and other feelings to be
"negative", unacceptable, and to be avoided. Aries may
become annoyed with being told how one "should feel" in a
given circumstance.
In particular, Sagittarius may try to
humour or talk Aries out of Aries' anger.
However,
there is also much harmony and compatibility between you on
an emotional level. Both of you crave personal freedom and a
certain degree of independence. Neither of you wants to be
completely "owned" by another person. You need respect for
your individuality and you will respect one another's right
to make your own decisions, etc.
Also,
both of you enjoy vigorous, competitive play or
high-spirited intellectual sparring.
Both of
you are high-energy people. Aries can help Sagittarius learn
to direct competitive drives and personal power into
positive channels, as this is something Aries has mastered
in ways that Sagittarius is still grappling with.
Sagittarius tends to go overboard, and become aggressive,
angry, and belligerent at times, whereas Aries is smoother
and less likely to aggravate other people when being
assertive and forceful. Aries has integrated and developed
certain aspects of the masculine principle (the ability to
act, to achieve, to assert the self effectively) and can
model this for Sagittarius.
This is a
friendship that is likely to last a lifetime because you are
able to openly share your inner feelings and experiences to
a degree that is rare with others. You love long talks,
especially about people, relationships, and personal
matters, and have a tendency to gossip. You are able to
confide in one another and feel that you are being heard and
understood. You discover things about yourself and your true
feelings by discussing them with one another, which makes
your relationship very rewarding.
You have
a strong affinity with one another, an instinctive rapport
that enables you to know one another very well, almost from
the start. A basic compatibility exists which helps you to
overcome the stressful or problematic facts of your
relationship. You have a natural sense of belonging with one
another, and partnership of some kind is likely to develop
and flourish.
You enjoy
laughing, having fun, socializing, and going out together.
You are great pals, but the relationship may not be serious
enough to warrant a lasting commitment to each other.
Consequently you both may decide to not marry even though
you may love each other very much. If you do marry, you will
allow each other a great deal of freedom, but you are likely
to disagree on how to handle finances, budgeting and
investments.
There is
a strong romantic quality to your relationship, but you will
also experience times when the qualities of your partner
contrast sharply with the qualities that you had envisioned
that your "Ideal Lover" would have. Do not try to force your
partner to conform to your desires; each person must be true
to themselves.
The
romantic love and sexual attraction for each other is very
compelling and deep. You wield a powerful, charismatic
influence on each other and your love affair is a powerful
one. This could be one of the most fulfilling, all-consuming
relationships of your life!
You may
tend to go overboard in sexual gratification. Both of you
have a strong sex drive, love-hate relationships are
definitely not for you.
