Enthusiasm, a sense of adventure, and high spirited play infuse your relationship. You both feel you can be yourselves fully with one another: you don't have to tone down any of your exuberance and energy, the way you might with someone else. In fact, you inspire and vitalize one another's strength. Aries sometimes clashes or competes with other strong individuals, but Sagittarius is tolerant, not threatened, and doesn't take the bait. Also, you both need personal freedom and space, and even if you spend all of your time together, you are unlikely to feel smothered in this relationship. A happy twosome!
Both of you are somewhat uncomfortable with emotional neediness, dependency, and feelings in general. Sagittarius often intellectualises feelings rather than experiencing them fully and directly, and may filter personal experiences through a philosophical system that regards certain feelings to be "positive" and acceptable, and other feelings to be "negative", unacceptable, and to be avoided. Aries may become annoyed with being told how one "should feel" in a given circumstance. In particular, Sagittarius may try to humour or talk Aries out of Aries' anger.
However, there is also much harmony and compatibility between you on an emotional level. Both of you crave personal freedom and a certain degree of independence. Neither of you wants to be completely "owned" by another person. You need respect for your individuality and you will respect one another's right to make your own decisions, etc.
Also, both of you enjoy vigorous, competitive play or high-spirited intellectual sparring.
Both of you are high-energy people. Aries can help Sagittarius learn to direct competitive drives and personal power into positive channels, as this is something Aries has mastered in ways that Sagittarius is still grappling with. Sagittarius tends to go overboard, and become aggressive, angry, and belligerent at times, whereas Aries is smoother and less likely to aggravate other people when being assertive and forceful. Aries has integrated and developed certain aspects of the masculine principle (the ability to act, to achieve, to assert the self effectively) and can model this for Sagittarius.
This is a friendship that is likely to last a lifetime because you
are able to openly share your inner feelings and experiences to a degree that is rare with others. You love long talks, especially about people, relationships, and personal matters, and have a tendency to gossip. You are able to confide in one another and feel that you are being heard and understood. You discover things about yourself and your true feelings by discussing them with one another, which makes your relationship very rewarding.
You have a strong affinity with one another, an instinctive rapport that enables you to know one another very well, almost from the start. A basic compatibility exists which helps you to overcome the stressful or problematic facts of your relationship. You have a natural sense of belonging with one another, and partnership of some kind is likely to develop and flourish.
You enjoy laughing, having fun, socializing, and going out together. You are great pals, but the relationship may not be serious enough to warrant a lasting commitment to each other. Consequently you both may decide to not marry even though you may love each other very much. If you do marry, you will allow each other a great deal of freedom, but you are likely to disagree on how to handle finances, budgeting and investments.
There is a strong romantic quality to your relationship, but you will also experience times when the qualities of your partner contrast sharply with the qualities that you had envisioned that your "Ideal Lover" would have. Do not try to force your partner to conform to your desires; each person must be true to themselves.
The romantic love and sexual attraction for each other is very compelling and deep. You wield a powerful, charismatic influence on each other and your love affair is a powerful one. This could be one of the most fulfilling, all-consuming relationships of your life!
You may tend to go overboard in sexual gratification. Both of you have a strong sex drive, love-hate relationships are definitely not for you.
