The two of you are very different! Capricorn approaches life in a much more methodical, planned, patient manner than Gemini. Capricorn uses a clear strategy and is willing to work hard for many long years to gradually achieve the intended goal. Capricorn is capable of great reliability and dedication, and will, for example, be willing to work through years of school until the desired degree is achieved. Gemini may also be successful, but the route is very different. Gemini succeeds through curiosity, flexibility and adaptability and communication skills. Unlike Capricorn, Gemini is not inclined to persevere through the dry periods but rather moves on the more interesting material once a point of stagnation is reached. Both approaches can work, but they are different and you may reach points in your lives where you cannot come to an agreement on the proper path to take.
Capricorn often seems like the adult in the relationship and can feel too conservative or serious to Gemini. Gemini is more like the child (or adolescent), being more flexible and playful but also less reliable and consistent.
Though very different, the two of you can complement one another. Capricorn is serious, disciplined, and conscientious almost to a fault. Practical and dutiful, Capricorn has a strong need to achieve, and becomes self-condemning and unhappy if not accomplishing enough. Overwork or an over-emphasis on obligations can take all of the fun out of life for Capricorn. Gemini, on the other hand, has a mischievous sense of humour and can lighten Capricorn's mood considerably.
In contrast to Capricorn, Gemini may also be irresponsible and careless, which annoys Capricorn. Gemini just doesn't take everything as seriously as Capricorn does.
In your relationship, Gemini may play the role of the adolescent (lively, playful, but uncommitted or lacking direction), while Capricorn plays the mature, responsible adult.
The two of you frequently approach work and goals in very different ways, and consequently you are inclined to step on each other's toes. Capricorn may feel that Gemini is pushy or insensitive to all of the issues and concerns that are involved in a situation. You can work together very effectively, but it requires you to allow each other the freedom to approach problems in a very different way than you would. Very often you can accomplish more by working separately from each other on different aspects of a problem rather than attempting to work jointly.
You energise, stimulate, provoke, inflame, and challenge one another! You can also irritate, anger, fight, push, and drive each other! Together you can accomplish an enormous amount of work, and it is important to you to share vigorous physical activities as an outlet for some of the fire you stir up in one another. Strong sexual desire and physical love are also big factors in your relationship.
You both may prefer the established styles of love-making, however, repetition can become boring. Capricorn can at times be rather prudish to Gemini, you may not benefit from sexual experimentation. You often may encounter obstacles to getting satisfaction in love. At times one partner may be turned off by a total lack of desire for sexual expression.
There is a marked tendency towards argumentativeness and sharp words between you which will need to be worked with if it is not to become an overriding dynamic in your relationship. Petty bickering and insistence on doing things in your own ways can even lead to minor accidents, especially when travelling together. Long distance automobile rides may be especially irritating.
One of the purposes of your relationship is to learn how to honestly discuss conflict and how to assert and communicate your personal desires. If you can find ways to do this without alienating or warring with each other, you will have fulfilled one of the functions of your being together.
There is an upbeat, enthusiastic, spontaneous quality to your relationship. You spark each other's imagination, creativity, and wit. You feel loose and uninhibited with each other, and you enjoy exploring life and sharing new experiences. Also, if you both enjoy dancing or playing music, you have found a wonderful dance and/or music partner. You spark each other's sense of rhythm, and you can work together very spontaneously, yet gracefully.
