You have an excellent intellectual rapport. You spark each other's wit and you love to toss ideas back and forth. Intellectual companionship is important to both of you, and in this relationship you have found a partner whose conversation and company you enjoy. The emotional and physical connection between you may, or may not be, strong. You may very well feel m ore like brother and sister, or best friends, than lovers; this will certainly be true if there is little emphasis on romance and emotional bonding in the rest of this report. Shared viewpoints, common interests, and social activities are key elements in your relationship.
Aquarius tends to be intense, driven, sometimes overly zealous or
wilful, and this is something few other people understand or appreciate. Aquarius tends to be an extremist, wants to go all the way, and may be regarded as a fanatic by more moderate types. Gemini, on the other hand, understands and even enjoys Aquarius's intensity, while not sharing the same degree of fervour or obsessiveness. Gemini isn't threatened by - or dominated by - Aquarius's strong will and desires. In fact, Gemini may be one of the few who can stand up to Aquarius without becoming embroiled in a furious power struggle. There is a lot of passion in this relationship. If you both direct your wills toward the same aims, you would be a formidable team, with Gemini helping Aquarius maintain some sense of balance and proportion.
The two of you enjoy planning and designing methods for achieving success. You encourage each other to achieve your dreams and Gemini frequently points out new avenues and grander vistas for Aquarius's talents and energy. However, the propensity to speculation and unrealistic optimism is also very strong, and many of your joint ventures are likely to prove wasteful, poorly times, or extravagant.
Being together will bring many changes into your lives. You'll become more progressive, more open to experimentation and new ideas, more adventurous and less conventional. You'll foster one another's freedom and autonomy, and develop a relationship that may look odd to other people, but which truly fits your own needs and authentic selves. What may have seemed radical or too far out to you, now will become quite easy for you to accept.
The more the two of you cooperate with the impulse towards newness and "nowness" (letting go of the need to maintain the familiar, or cling to preconceived expectations), the better and more smooth your relationship will be. One of the purposes of the two of you coming together is to open you both to new ways of expressing yourselves and understanding the world. You probably enjoy playing mental games together - word games, guessing games, etc. and you may also undertake a creative mental activity together, such as writing. Sports, arts and entertainment can also be enjoyed together.
Your relationship is exciting, unpredictable, and stimulating. However, it tends to be explosive too, and there is the strong possibility that you will come together suddenly and unexpectedly, and will break up just as suddenly. If either of you is looking for a very stable, quiet, traditional, uneventful marriage with security, commitment, dependability, and predictability, then this is not the relationship for you! Together you will explore new possibilities and interests and break away from traditional, long-held beliefs and assumptions. Your sexual life, like other aspects of your lives, is exciting but not predictable and likely to vary from ecstatic to unsatisfying. You must be willing to be flexible and adaptable in all areas of life. Be wary, also, of letting your love for freedom and independence become a euphemism for being neglectful and inconsiderate of each other.
You may try to pack too many different techniques into one night of love. Fantasies are something you both enjoy, some, even join swingers groups or prefer to have an open relationship, where you can allow a relationship outside your own. Sex props, videos and mechanical embellishments may appeal to you. Verbal expression and words with great erotic impact is important to you. The better your love vocabulary, the more expressive you love.
